Life can be OK.

  I have to say that the last week or two have been the best weeks I have had in such a long long time.  I thought for sure, as I am sure a few of my loved ones thought as well, that I would be holed up and crying day and night for the last few weeks but I havn’t been.  Things that normally would have set me off and into a spiral downward haven’t or if they have I have been able to take a step back, breath and let it go.  and the funny thing is ALL of this is without my normal medication. 

   so what am I doing different?  For one I am realizing I am not in control.  I am powerless.  There is nothing I can do about any of the things going on around me.  No matter what happens or what I do God’s will is the one that will prevail so why fight it?

   I am also spending more time at the church.  I can complain about being tired or to much on my plate but to be honest it really is what is helping me heal right now.  It is everything I need I right now.

   Lastly I am letting those around me deal with themselves.  They are all grown and have to answer to things themselves.  I can’t fix them.  I can’t cater to them.  I have to heal me and they have to heal themselves.  Don’t get me wrong I am here for anyone who needs to talk or something but I am not trying to control everyone anymore.  Including my kids.

  There is still so much more that I need to do.  I need to make a more firm effort to be in Gods word daily besides the classes I am taking and such.  I need to excercise more (and will when done with my daughters baby shower tomorrow.  LOL) and I need to eat healthier.  All things that lets be honest are not a problem and can be done I just need to be more diligent in the effort.

   So slowly I am learning to be more content.  I am learning to be more powerLESS and let God have the control.  I know its going to be a lifelong road and that I am going to hit bumps, which I still do, but I will know how to handle those bumps better through the Grace of God.  🙂

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